Surprise, Surprise!

I see life as a surprise. The fact that nothing is guaranteed is quite threatening. In other words, no one knows what exactly is going to happen in the next couple of minutes. Even if you guess, it turns out to be mere assumptions that have nothing to do with reality. That is why the rate of disappointed people is getting higher every minute. We are human beings and we get easily affected by words and situations. We can get hurt, pained, and joyful or over the moon, it just depends on the things that happen in our lives. Sometimes one minute you are excited about something and all of a sudden something happens that shuts you off and makes you lose interest in whatever you were thrilled about. This is life and this is how it functions, because it is a mixture of all the good and the bad things that make it balanced and normal. We should be aware of the fact that many things could go wrong and opposite to what we wish for. This should not make us lose hope and isolate ourselves; instead we should keep a positive attitude towards whatever is irritating us or causing us dissatisfactions.

We need to keep in mind that things take time, but at the end they will go away, and everything will be alright. We need to be calm and wise while taking decisions and we should never rush things or force things to happen. Getting stressed and in tension will cause nothing but more problems and anger. For example in a relationship whenever there are hardships, one side has to be more flexible, smooth and capable of letting go quickly while the other side is in aggression to keep things in track and under control. If the two sides are stressed and do not choose to be patient and understanding, they will immediately lash out at one another and lose their tempers easily. The consequences are, certainly, not so good. You have to be prepared that life is so unexpected and there is a possibility that things (whether likeable or not) could happen out of the blue.

So what how do you think you should react? One very important rule to always put into consideration is not to rush things. Rushing things could lead you repercussions that you would not like. If you can control your temper, you are one step closer to undefeated peace. Life will surprise you a lot and in many countless ways. Do not fret about what you did not plan for; and remember that this is something innate and unchangeable in life. In other words, this is how life works anyways. Just hold on, do not lose hope, stay focused and face your problems. Do your best and try to reconcile with life surprises. Accept more, understand more, forgive, give excuses, listen, do not judge, give space, respect differences and be kind to yourself. As long as we are living, we will go through a lot; so we may as well enjoy ourselves and our company. Why not make it easier for everyone to feel embraced, loved and accepted? Why don’t we meet life’s surprises with a strong will that will not be broken by whatever disappointment? It is okay to struggle and be sure that after all this struggle; you will be rewarded with happiness and peace.

Be kind to yourself and keep going on. You can get over any dilemma and cross it out forever. You are destined to make this world a better place. Your strength of will can make you do anything just to feel good and proud of yourself. Always remember, you can and you will. Life is not always going to give you bad surprised, it will also give you some sweet and happy surprises that will be a turning point in your life. If you believe in the law of attraction, then what a wonderful idea would it think positive and be optimistic. Definitely your optimism will pay off and life will surprise you with all the beauty that it has to offer you, just because of the law of attraction.